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Software Teen Stands Accused of Shooting Parents for Taking Away Halo 3

Is it possible for the "experts" to now take their feet out of their mouths. Violence begets violence. Doesn't matter if it's a game or some other influence.
 
Rather than making a statement for or against video games, I'd say the story just reflects the sense of entitlement most kids have nowadays. I also noticed that the boy's father was a minister - seems like preachers' kids get get into more trouble than other kids.
 
I guess I should stop playing CFS3.


But it is the parents fault for letting him get that way.
 
I can remember when I was young I use to shoot small plastic men with my BB gun, play cowboy and Indianians with the neighborhood kids - non of us killed anyone for real. I play shoot-em-up games now too - yet to date have not killed anyone. Not saying that this solves this whole topic but if you have half a head there is a big big difference between PLAYING and real in anything we do. We fly in FSX but know we really could not fly a 747 to save our lives. Play is play real is a whole other story.

The kids today have less fear/respect of authority/parents, not all but some.

My humble opinion.

David
 
Lack of parenting is the culprit. It's not rap, heavy metal, video games or movies. Don't spoil your kids; set boundaries and limitations. Above all, never pass up the opportunity to teach your kids a lesson.
 
When I was a kid, spanking was the rule. I got spanked at home for being a snot, I got spanked at the neighbor's house for being a snot and then got spanked again when I got home for being a snot at the neighbor's house. Teachers had paddles in their bottom desk drawer and were more than willing to use them....and I got another butt whoopin when I got home for being a snot in school.

Then the bleeding heart pacifist psycho-babble nerds in tweed jackets and courdaroy skirts deemed spankings to be bad as it taught children to be violent.

So, kids haven't been spanked for a good decade or so....and youth violence is far more prevalent now than at any time.

But then, it was Bugs Bunny and Wile E Coyote teaching kids to be violent....so those classic cartoons have been pulled from the air waves.

Now it's video games and rap music that are to blame.

For what.....for the failure of parents to bust their kid's arse when it needs busted. For the psycho-babble nerds interfering in strong and effective parenting and discipline.

Bring back the leather strap, the wooden paddle, the good old hickory switch and I can bet the youth crime rates will drop.

OBIO
 
Bring back the leather strap, the wooden paddle, the good old hickory switch and I can bet the youth crime rates will drop.

OBIO
Thats how it should be, but I have a feeling that you would be arrested for that nowadays:bs:
 
It's not the game it's the parents lack of parenting. I have dealt with gang kids in the past and most of them have same pattern. My wife and I had adopted one of these bad boys, and thank God he came out alright and is now serving his country. He had never been disciplined before in manner that made him understand he was loved. There were rules and limits as to what he could do. His biological mom let the TV babysit him, and like so many no one was around to help them interpret what they were seeing. There was not only neglect and lack of supervision, but also there was no values system put in place. There are a lot of people out there now who see little value in human life, because they were never taught the value of life. Just recently a 7 year old boy shot his Dad and his father's friend and got a plea deal. He knew he would get a deal because he had seen it on a TV detective show called Law and Order. Primetime TV and today's games require supervision.
Ted
 
Rather than making a statement for or against video games, I'd say the story just reflects the sense of entitlement most kids have nowadays. I also noticed that the boy's father was a minister - seems like preachers' kids get get into more trouble than other kids.

But their daughters are fun .......... :applause:
 
Actually I have to contend in this case against you guys arguing that its the parents lack of parenting.

Having read the article and understanding it as I think I do, here is what I find.

First of all log onto the Halo 3 website (http://www.halo3.com/) and put any date in there that tells the log in that you are 16 years old or younger. You can't get there, the site is banned by the publishers of the game to kids 16 years young and younger, so the publisher is aware that some content may not be good for minors.

Secondly, the article states that the parents, obviously looking out for the welfare of their son, who is still living under their roof and care, may have been aware of the age restrictions of the game and because of that, they denied him access to the game, taking care of their parental right to govern their son's life since their son at the time of the incident was under legal age as noted by the log in attempt from the publisher. So I can't see where that reflects badly on the parents.

The article doesn't say whether or not this kid had Halo 1 or Halo 2, if he did then perhaps his parents are to blame, since the rating of those games are "M" for mature audiences. (http://www.esrb.org/index-js.jsp) The "M" rating says 17+. So if his parents let him play 1 and 2 then this is a failure of the parents to abide by the "M" rating of the publishers.

However I tend to think that, based on the parents actions at this time, and finding out that his father is a minister, I would like to think that their conduct in guiding their son has been consistent over the years. But this is all conjecture since its not covered.

Should his Father have put the game in his lockbox is up for discussion. I know if it were I who was the father, I would have taken the game back to the store and got the boy's money back. Doing so would have eliminated the temptation of the boy to break into the lockbox where the instrument of the attacks were stored as well. And who knows whether we'd be reading about this or not now.

With regard to the comments of "violence breeds violence" comments I just have this to say. The human brain is much like a computer, it needs programed though life in order to function properly in society. If you put garbage in a computer, you get garbage out of a computer. The same is true of the human brain. So if the garbage you're feeding your brain is violence, then you are going to get violence out of it in certain cases. This input and output have a tendancy to scar the human consciousness.

I don't know that I can put blame anywhere, it was a series of circumstances that turned out badly. I do blame the writer of the story for making it a whiner type of article claiming that the boys "rights" were violated against. This is just bad writing at it's worst. :censored:
 
Hi all,
I agree with everything Obio has just said.
BUT and it is a big but.And one some of you will run screaming from the building saying 'It is my god given right'.
GUNS ARE JUST TO EASILY AVAILABLE IN THE US.Sorry to shout just wanted to make sure you listened.

Buddha13
 
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